Senin, 01 Oktober 2012

MARRIAGE IS THE FAVOR OF ALLAH UPON HIS SERVANT


Living in a world where pleasure without that support, it would seem barren. If further reflection, the tendency (disposition) can liberate humanity from all the shackles of evil, of course, if it is directed at what is pleasing to God. This is not the ultimate goal, because it is a mediator in a more noble goal. Therefore, a good branch necessarily come from the foundation (root) is good too. Similarly, in the married life.

Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says:

"And among the signs of His power is that He created for you wives from your kind self, that you tend to be and feel at ease with him, and made ​​him in the midst of affection. Verily in this is truly there are signs for people who think. "(Surat Ar-Rum (30): 21)

Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says,
"He it is Who created you from a single self and from it He created his wife, so she was pleased with him." (Surat al-A'raaf (7): 189)

women are often regarded as a pet that does not have a degree at all. At times during the conference on the Persian-place their self-proclaimed 586 years, that she was a human, not animal, nor as beings created to serve men.

Happiness is spiritual life of a husband is a necessity that can not be obtained unless to the
yourself a wife as her life partner. Regarding this issue, the Qur'an speaks about the hints and subtle feelings that are able to vibrate all the inner strength. Once the pila what is taught by the Prophet Muhammad Sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam since 14 centuries ago. In addition it has been established, that women are the signs of Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala created from male soul mate (mate), instead of the soul alin. Made as a wife and not as a servant, as His words, "And among the signs of His greatness is that He (Allah) created for you wives from your kind self." As for purpose that God created a wife is her husband tended to him, because love is a matter of the heart and only with humans derive happiness in the world. (Al Bahi Al Khulli, p. 37).

The wedding reception was held, woman (wife) will be on the side of her husband. After that, she (the wife) will enter the room and said to her husband, that he owed to her husband and did not know how to pay for it, even if only partially. then the husband replied, best payment is the presence of his wife at his side.


Through the above verse, Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala laid the foundations of a life filled with feeling and peace. Therefore, the wife must be a shelter (air care) for him after a day of fighting or working for a living and rely on affection she felt tired due to work and business. A wife should always seemed happy and sweet-faced at the time to meet with her ​​husband. Or when you hear him talk, and talk to him with gentle and sweet in order to reduce its burden.

Should always sharing the wife to her husband, so he can remove the thirst for sexual relations with all the love and affection, so that his heart will be spared from humiliation and impingement amoral lust ("Islam and Life Biologics", p.21-22, essay Mahmud bin Sharif).




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